{date your kids}. set aside some one-on-one time with each of your kids. -Our Mother Daughter Tea-

mother daughter tea

I find it increasingly difficult to set aside some alone time with each one of our children.  I don’t know if it’s because they are getting older or if it’s because we have 4 kids AND they’re getting older.  But, … Continue reading 

learning from the past. growing for the future {the book continues, Desperate ch10}

3 little words

For practically our entire marriage my mister has had this uncanny ability to divert a fight, err, I mean carefully constructed conversation, into a peaceably diffused interaction with 3 little words.  I. Love. You.  For years I thought this was … Continue reading 

{Infertility and Adoption Etiquette}. what to say to help your waiting friend

infertility and adoption etiquette

My good friend Amber and I are teaming up again to finish our series on Infertility and Adoption Etiquette. We often get asked our opinions on how to care for someone who is struggling with infertility or transitioning to adoption. … Continue reading 

join the movement. Part TWO of {when you’re fertile myrtle but your friend is waiting wendy. how to care for your friend who is walking the road of infertility, miscarriage and adoption} National Infertility Awareness Week

infertility miscarriage adoption

Today is another wonderful opportunity for me to co-author a posting with my good friend Amber @ Bumbers Bumblings.  Amber and I have known each other for 10 years now and walked alongside each other during infertility and the grief … Continue reading 

Join the Movement. National Infertility Awareness Week. {The Dreaded Question…When Are You Having Kids? And How Do You Respond If You’re the One Who Is on the Receiving End?}

baby question

So, when are you guys going to have kids? You’re in your 30’s? What are you waiting for? If you’re TTC and not having much luck, these two questions are some of the hardest to field.  They rip your heart … Continue reading